Sexy Filler

This is a random blog about sex. (as suggested by a bud O' Mine)

Doesn't anyone but me realise that sex (or making love) isn't as "beautiful" an act as people make it out to be? Two people joining together in a seremony of sorts of love. When you get right down to it, it's a guy sticking his dick in a womans vagina until he ejacultes semen in or around said woman.

So beautiful?

Then again...

I wonder how it must be to be a pron star then...where your job is doing nothing but having sex with several, sometimes annoymous, partners. Soing an act thats supposed to be pleasurable to do everyday as a JOB. Everyday doing the same thing, same positions, same acts,...different people though. Developing and destroying relationships simultaneously. Sex is no longer an act of love or pleasure but just an activity you have to do everyday. Having sex is no longer looked forward to but is dreaded as much as going into work on a Monday morning.

Walking that same rut everyday, going in and coming out (pun not intended, but why not) of work everyday without the feeling of true accomplishment. I mean sure, you may be helping young lonely teenagers and divorced men everywhere, but other than it's really an empty business. Being in porn just makes the aformentioned statment about sex not being beautiful true. It's a mundane form of entertainment that is constantly repeated with several of the same acts and possibly the same people. (Dont ask how I know this By the way) It's all the same. They make sex out ot be some loveless act done with the most random of people. It's sometimes portrayed as violent, or apathetic, or an act of rebellion as opposed to a romantic act between two people who love each other very much.

In a way, sex is beautiful because these two people can trust each other enough to do away with their inhibitions and do this act that can make a person so vulneralbe that the only person they can confide in during this time is the one person you truly love. And porn took all of that and just destroyed it.

Sex is no longer beautiful...but a chore.

(Btw, thanks Karen for this classy classy blog suggestion)